{"id":611293,"date":"2023-02-04T16:47:00","date_gmt":"2023-02-04T13:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/?p=611293"},"modified":"2022-08-09T00:24:47","modified_gmt":"2022-08-08T21:24:47","slug":"holiday-romance-pros-and-cons","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/holiday-romance-pros-and-cons\/","title":{"rendered":"Holiday romance: pros and cons"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Summer is a small life," sings one famous bard. It doesn't really matter what he means. Another thing is important: a vacation is a separate life, a novel within a novel. Summer is, as a rule, trips to warmer climes, to the seas and oceans. It is known that many of us go to the resort not only to breathe in the sea air, plunge into the warm waves, get a bronze tan and feel the joy of freedom from everyday life. There is another goal, more hidden, which is usually hidden, sometimes even from oneself. This is a holiday romance. In fact, holiday romances are quite common. Tan, sea breeze, piercing gaze, flirting – all this adds new, special emotions. However, many girls are still wondering about their emotions: is it worth starting holiday romances at all? Also, the question arises: can there be a continuation of the holiday romance? We will try to tell about all this in this article.<\/p>\n

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Holiday romances: advantages and disadvantages<\/h2>\n

Among the advantages, of course, it is worth listing the brightest emotions that will warm you later even in the coldest winter. In addition, this is a chance to meet your true love, because despite the fact that most often resort romances do not continue, you can easily transfer these vivid feelings into your everyday life. And yet, quite often holiday romances make us think about what we really lack.<\/p>\n

Among the shortcomings – of course, the transience of such relationships. And also, if sex is planned, then do not forget about barrier contraceptives, because instead of positive emotions, bringing home a “bouquet” of unpleasant sores with you is still not the best idea. Accept and understand the fact that the romance will end with your vacation – very important. Of course, you can save each other's contacts, but in some cases this will be superfluous.<\/p>\n

Is it worth abandoning the novel, even if it obviously does not promise a continuation? If you have a fabulous holiday romance, then you have already received more from your vacation than you could expect. Agree that even without any continuation, the holiday romance is good in itself: it is worth looking at it exclusively from the positive side. By the way, sex is not at all an obligatory component of a holiday romance, feelings can be quite platonic.<\/p>\n

In the turbulent phase, the beginning of the novel gives us incomparable emotions. A firework of feelings is not a figure of speech at all: scientists have even found out that at the first stage of falling in love, the body produces a substance called phenylethylamine, which causes a reaction similar to drug intoxication. From such a holiday you will, of course, get more than you expected. And also, discover new facets of yourself – the real one, the way your relatives, colleagues and even close friends do not see you.<\/p>\n

Is there a future for holiday romances?<\/h2>\n

More likely no than yes. Harsh statistics states the fact that only 20% of men are ready to continue the relationship with a "resort" girlfriend. Apparently, the majority of those surveyed really go on vacation to relax, feel free, not burdened with obligations and fool around a little. However, nothing prevents you from doing exactly the same thing: do not expect anything from these relationships, according to the principle, if it works out – good, no – no.<\/p>\n

In fact, the further development of such relationships is possible only in those cases when both of you and your counterpart are free from other relationships, or you can easily say goodbye to them if you are both set to build relationships, and not just for spontaneous sex, if you live in the same city, or one of you is ready to move, and most importantly, if you are sure that this is love and you can no longer imagine yourself without each other. It is better to clarify all this, at least on the last day of the vacation, so that there is no unpleasant aftertaste, or a feeling of understatement.<\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Is it worth starting a holiday romance? Advantages and disadvantages of holiday romances. How to extend the holiday romance? How to end a relationship on vacation or how to make it grow into something more serious?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":155210,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_wp_rev_ctl_limit":""},"categories":[613],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-611293","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/611293","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=611293"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/611293\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/155210"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=611293"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=611293"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/allforwomen.com.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=611293"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}