What should never be said to a man?

It is often said that women love with their ears and men with their eyes. Of course, there is a rational grain here, but in fact, men are sensitive to what they hear no less than women. Today we will give you the top phrases that you should never say to your man, they can put your relationship in serious jeopardy.

1. "LET'S DO THIS MYSELF." Yes, we believe that you are independent and self-sufficient and can really do everything or almost everything on your own. Even in the twenty-first century, when women, it would seem, have won all possible rights and opportunities from the stronger sex, men still want to be defenders, earners and hunters of mammoths. If you want your man to take care of you, consider you fragile and protect you in every way, then do not abuse this phrase. Let him help you.
2. "HOW I HAVE BORED YOUR FRIENDS!". In your eyes, they may be infantile lazybones and loafers, but for your loved one they are faithful comrades who have known him almost from kindergarten, who have gone through fire, water and copper pipes with him. By declaring war on them, you are not only being unreasonable and, in fact, declaring war on yourself. Accept the friends of your beloved man, or at least, if this is still impossible, do not protest against them, let your man go to spend time with them. Friends are important to him and he will be grateful to you for such an approach.
3. "I'm SO FAT…". Let's be frank: this phrase is translated only as "urgently tell me how beautiful I am!". But in fact, men take such phrases too literally and (oh horror!), Your lover may even agree with you. And yet, for a couple of extra pounds, your man may not even pay attention if you do not emphasize this point yourself. Therefore, be careful with such maxims and, on the contrary, praise yourself more often, focus on your merits.
4. "I TOLD YOU!". Few things can ruin a relationship like an obsessive desire to always be right. Even if you really warned him about the consequences of this or that act, think about what will give you the fact that you were right? You should not assert yourself at the expense of a man if you want him to be strong with you.
5. "I DON'T CARE WHAT YOUR MOM THINKS." In no case do not insult the parents of your beloved, try to maintain the best possible relationship with them. Like friends, mom is sacred. For your beloved, she will always be among the most important and most influential women, and even if the man himself allows himself to grumble at the parent, do not rush to actively support his bouts of indignation. Or, if the relationship with the mother-in-law or father-in-law becomes completely unbearable, then this may well be a reason for breaking off the relationship. You should not sacrifice yourself and your mental health for the sake of a man, especially if the father-in-law goes too far, your man, if he loves you, of course, should also notice this.
6. “THIS IS THE HUSBAND OF MY FRIEND…". The worst thing you can do is start comparing your man to others. Constantly comparing our own height, weight, career achievements, income level, apartment size with other people's achievements, we seem to be playing a game in which we initially doom ourselves to lose. The low self-esteem of your man, subsequently, affects you badly, therefore, in this way, you only make things worse for yourself.
7. YOU DO NOT LOVE ME! You can believe in the materiality of thoughts, you can not believe, but as a rule, it is after such words that men begin to reflect. Who knows, maybe he too will come to the same conclusion?

In general, it is very important not only to limit yourself in statements, but, at a minimum, to put yourself in the place of a partner and, before saying anything, think about how you would feel in his place?