Why Your Ex Won’t Leave You Alone Why the ex writes and how to respond to his messages
After parting with a young man, you just recovered from this, all unpleasant emotions subsided and life went back to its normal course. But no. Your ex decided to make himself known: calls, writes, offers a meeting. Has he realized that life without you is not a joy for him? Or is there another explanation for his behavior?
He didn’t find anyone better
Being in a relationship with you, he thought that he could find someone better. But, having broken off relations, he realized that finding a new girl (not to mention the fact that she should be better than you, in his opinion) is not so easy.
And if you still love your ex, then why not accept him back, since he has realized everything. The only thing you should make sure of is whether he returned to you for a while until another girl turns up under his arm.
Revenge
On whose initiative did you break up? If the breakup was because of you, it’s likely that your ex doesn’t want to be in debt. If you hurt a person’s pride, he will want to take revenge.
If you think that only girls know about the expression “revenge is served cold", you are wrong. The male half of humanity is well aware of this. Therefore, after waiting some time, he will come to you with a guilty look so that you give him a second chance, and then he will do with you not in the most pleasant way… So he will leave the last word for himself, breaking off relations with you.
Decided to heal the wounds
If a young man left you because he had a new lover, then there is a possibility that he decided to return to you after he was abandoned. Who can better heal his spiritual wounds than you. Keep in mind that having "licked" his wounds, he will no longer need you.
force of habit
You have separated. Now everyone lives their own life together. But you’ve been in a relationship for so long that it’s hard for you to start doing things apart. A person can change his habits, but it takes a lot of effort. If he does not want to spend this effort, it is easier for him to return to you. Remember that love and habit are different things that do not intersect with each other in any way.
“And it’s weak for you…”
No matter how unpleasant it may sound, he could just bet with someone that he can easily return you. “A call, a meeting, a couple of compliments and she is with me again” sounds childish, but it can be.
When he wins the argument by reconciling with you, the likelihood that he will leave you again without the slightest regret is 99%.
If you think that the remaining 1% is worth your trouble, put up with it.
He really loves you
Every girl will be pleased to know that her ex-boyfriend still loves her. Even if he himself was the initiator of the break, the chance is that only after losing you, he realized that he loves. Remember the expression “what we have we do not store, having lost by crying”? It perfectly describes this situation.
If the purpose of your breakup was to test his feelings, rejoice, he passed it.
But if he no longer interests you, you should tell him directly about everything.