Male fidelity: myth or reality? When are men faithful?
It is widely believed that faithful men do not exist. But is it really so? Consider this issue not only from the side of psychology, but also from the side of scientifically proven processes that occur inside a person during treason.
Men are polygamous creatures. This fact has been repeatedly proven by scientists. Among the representatives of the stronger sex, there are no monogamists who really do not look at other girls. More precisely, there are such men and, as a rule, they suffer from reduced sexual desire (impotence). In other cases, every man looks at other girls, regardless of whether he has feelings for his wife or not. But this does not mean that all of us girls are the owners of “horns on our heads." After all, in the modern world, people’s behavior is dictated not by animal instincts, but by reason.
The main reasons why a man is faithful
low sex drive
Despite the fact that this reason has already been mentioned above, she has the right to take a place in the list of the main reasons why a man remains faithful to his chosen one.
Conscious decision
It was also mentioned that in our world, animal instincts have faded into the background, people are guided by reason when making decisions. If a man is successful, self-confident and he has decided that he will be faithful to one woman, if he is responsible for his words and actions, he will not allow himself to break this promise made to himself. Nothing will affect this decision – neither the length of the other woman’s skirt, nor the belly dance, nor the erotic massage.
The only exception is his personal desire.
Fear
When a man is afraid of losing the comfort he has, he will not cheat. Why would he risk it again.
Of course, he can look at other representatives of the fair sex, he can afford various kinds of fantasies, but nothing more.
Feeling the fear of losing what a person has is absolutely normal.
Genes and pheromones are to blame
Half of men feel absolutely comfortable without cheating and the reason for this is the presence of a gene. Some strong representatives have a gene that “programs” them to cheat, while others have a gene that tells them that cheating is not an urgent need.
Each person secretes certain pheromones. Female pheromones are useful for men. And if a man gets used to the pheromones of a permanent partner, then cheating with a new person acts on his body like an energy cocktail.
If a young man, before meeting his permanent darling, “walked up”, that is, received a sufficient amount of a cocktail, his decision to start a family was more conscious. In such a conscious family union, there are no problems with intimacy for the first 7-10 years, so the man does not even look to the left. Further, everything can go according to two scenarios. The first is that a man continues to be faithful to his partner. Second, he gets bored and starts flirting openly with other girls. But, as a rule, he does not need physical intimacy. He is more looking for emotional comfort. Therefore, having fallen in love with a girl, he happily returns to his family.