Heifers and sheep: what makes girls lose respect for themselves?
Recently, the word “heifer", which is applied to females, gradually ceases to carry a negative character. The girls themselves began to use this term in relation to each other, not to mention the guys.
Is it okay to call your girlfriend a chick
Why is calling your soulmate a cat, a bunny and other pet names is considered normal, but a heifer is not? If we are talking about an affectionate call sign, then there is nothing offensive here, you can call your girlfriend even an oyster, even a monkey, even a heifer. The main thing is that your loved one is happy. However, you will agree that the phrase “look, this is my otter has come” sounds like it is spoken by a loving guy. “This is my chick Nastya” – who do you immediately imagine before your eyes? Obviously not two well-mannered people madly in love with each other.
Who imposed this term on society
This term is imposed by various media. Agree that in books you rarely find such a name for a female representative. We all understand that television is rather not a reflection of reality, but its formation. Someone at the moment is beneficial to create a wave of neglect of the female sex.
Have you noticed that social networks are actively promoting the fact that girls should be easily accessible? Our mothers used to blush at the words “sex” and “blowjob”. Now the phrases “you do a great blow job” or “I would blow it” become just the highest degree of praise. The pride of a girl is not her intellect, inner world and sweet face, but her “elastic nut”, big breasts and a man with a thick wallet.
Girls are becoming more and more like a commodity that they are trying to sell as profitably as possible.
So why not call such ladies chicks?
One size fits all…
As mentioned above, men began to treat girls with disdain. Because of this, they have a great tongue turning to call them skins, heifers, etc.
However, girls who respect themselves will not succumb to the influence of society and stoop to such behavior of a heifer. But this does not save them from such statements in their direction, since for a man neglect is an everyday thing that is the norm for him.
If you are not satisfied with this order of things and similar “names” (whether you are a guy or a girl), then I hasten to congratulate you, you are the person in whom there is a drop of respect for yourself and for the people around you.
If you are a girl, feel free to show your displeasure if someone calls you a “chick”. If you are a man who heard such statements about a girl, do not be afraid to make comments to people.
Accepting neglect is not an option. Do not be silent, do not be afraid to go against the majority. Only in this way can we try to instill respect for each other in people.