How to bring passion back into a relationship? Basic ways

Sooner or later, in almost any relationship, there comes a moment when the passion of the first meetings and the first months of communication slowly dissolves. You get used to seeing your partner tired, in a stretched T-shirt, in a far from the most attractive appearance, and it is not passion that comes to the fore, but rather calmness, confidence in a reliable person. Yes, and you, for sure, are no longer as scrupulously watching your appearance as before the first dates. You spend less time together, no longer disappear for hours in bed, and sweets and bouquets happen only on holidays. Of course, this period is also charming: if only because confidence in a partner, without intrigues, is also extremely important, and it’s not always possible to think only about love and relationships, sometimes you should pay attention to work, hobbies and friends, right?

But still, if you yearn for that sweet-endorphin period when passions were in full swing, and nights and days were not sweet without a loved one, then we will provide you with several working ways to return passion to a relationship.

• Flirt! Try to communicate with your husband the way you would on a first date: listen carefully, smile, look in a special way. The more you do this, the more you will “get used" to the role and will do it absolutely sincerely. Forget about the ordinary, homely, slightly bored tone – imagine that you have a person who has yet to be conquered. Burning eyes decide a lot!
• Write romantic SMS. Stop using instant messengers only to write there to your chosen one only a shopping list for the evening. Send him tender declarations of love, and sometimes spicy photographs will be useful, then your faithful will spend the rest of the working day thinking about how to get home as soon as possible.
• Organize a joint professional photo session with a good photographer, and be sure to post the best photos on your page on the social network – compliments increase self-esteem, and therefore mood. Love story photo shoots are extremely popular right now and many photographers are doing it. And yet, you can put photos in beautiful frames or photo albums and together get charged with how cool you are.
• Go travel for the weekend: you can even go to a neighboring city. An unfamiliar environment liberates and brings variety. As you can see, you don’t even have to take a vacation. If there is no opportunity to go to another city, just at least rent a hotel for the newlyweds: this will help to get a good emotional shake-up.
• Go to the cinema for a melodrama: a morning screening, “kissing places” and memories of the first meetings will make any film unforgettable.
• For the next family holiday, ask for a SPA certificate for two.
• Try pair dancing – better in the studio with a teacher, but you can just at home – this is a good way to forget about everyday problems and remember love. Pair dances help to wake up the libido, and at the same time – to begin to feel a partner much better. This is useful both in intimate life and in everyday life.
• Try not to criticize your man for exactly a week and only compliment him – this excites you better than any lingerie with kilometers of lace. However, underwear with kilometers of lace will also not be superfluous: it will liberate you, and your husband’s desire will significantly improve.
• Prepare a delicious and beautifully presented breakfast with fresh pastries and freshly brewed coffee and serve it in bed. Breakfast in bed is always extremely sweet and romantic.
• If you feel that life and routine are making an unpleasant contribution to your relationship, try hiring a housekeeper or at least a one-time cleaning. Spend the freed time and energy on your loved one.