How to understand that he has a mistress?

The most important thing in a relationship is, of course, trust. But practically no one is immune from a situation where trust can seriously crack. We are talking, of course, about the possible adultery of a partner and the appearance of a constantly mistress, or an ever-changing string of girls “on the side." Of course, if you have started reading this material, it is likely that you already have some suspicions.

Immediately answer your question: are you ready for the bitter truth? And yet, you should not wind yourself up once again, far from always late returning home can indicate the presence of betrayal, after all, no one is safe from rush jobs at work. Eating yourself with jealousy is not worth it: this is a rather toxic feeling. But there are a number of signs by which the presence of treason is still possible to recognize.

How to understand that he has a mistress?

Of course, if the mistress decided to call or write to you herself, at the same time, flavoring her message with intimate correspondence or photographs, then there is no need to guess. And it’s also worth understanding what exactly you take for treason: for someone it’s intimacy, for someone it’s innocent kisses or even correspondence inconsistent with a partner.

1. A man will change his attitude towards you and towards children. There are two possible options – he will feel guilty, give you gifts, pay attention, take care, start abruptly giving flowers for no reason, even if this has not happened for a long time. Or, on the contrary, he will move away, scandalize, communicate less with children. Both behaviors should be alert. In the first case, a man tries to make amends and tries to renew love (especially this option often manifests itself with a single betrayal). In the second – to justify your betrayal to yourself, exposing you as guilty and bad. The second option, of course, is more traumatic, because it significantly affects self-esteem.
2. When a partner or husband is often absent from home, especially in the evening, this is a clear sign of infidelity. This is not about isolated cases, but about a trend. Yes, he can refer to rush jobs at work, part-time jobs, frequent business trips (and in fact this can be the case, as already mentioned above), but this should alert you. Together with other signs of infidelity, especially if such workaholism was not noticed before for your missus, a delay at work leads to 100% thoughts of infidelity. Call him, be interested in how things are going: by the answers or their absence, you can also understand quite a lot.
3. The husband began to preen a lot more. Previously, he did not pay such close attention to his image and appearance, but now he shaves every day, often updates his wardrobe, does manicures, smells delicious, is always neat, and takes a shower every day. The question arises – for whom is he trying so hard and where does he spend time when he is not with you? In combination with other features, this one is quite weighty.
4. The partner has become much more secretive. He does not part with his phone, always puts it with the screen down, the phone itself is always password-protected, like a laptop, like a home computer. He has encrypted chats in Telegram and Viber, in the bank account statement you can find payments in restaurants, flower shops – and all this was clearly not with you. And in the browser history, as well as accounts on hotel booking sites, you can find a lot of interesting things. We do not in any way persuade you to read other people’s messages: we are sure that this is low. And much can be gleaned from available sources.